Helping Troubled Boys and Girls

By Helping Troubled Boys and Girls

Most families move through the teen years with some stretching of limits but safe within the boundaries that they and their teens continually negotiate. When troubled teen's behavior becomes erratic or dangerous, your pattern of gradually letting go of the strings may end in abrupt rupture. For example if parents of struggling teens notice that their teens are not coming home at night, abusing drugs, stealing, being promiscuous, or dropping out of school, these are serious complications that need to be treated in a professional manner. It doesn't matter whether the troubled teens crisis is about substance abuse or an unwanted pregnancy, there are specific steps you can take as a parent to mend the rupture for struggling boys and girls. Many struggling teens don’t know how to overcome the problems that they are faced with and many troubled teens need to be placed in the correct environment in order to restore themselves. Zion Educational Services can educate parents of struggling teens, on how to place troubled boys and girls in the correct environment in order to receive the help they need to overcome their struggles. For immediate assistance contact ZES at 866-439-8112, to speak with a child placing specialist to educate you on school program placement for struggling teens in the perfect facility that fits their needs.

 Your first job as parents of struggling teens is to assess whether, in fact, you are dealing with a serious crisis. All struggling boys and girls go through periods of experimentation and risk taking. But when the dangerous behavior becomes frequent, troubled teens may be in serious difficulty. Troubled teens coming home drunk or stoned once or twice isn't a crisis; coming home drunk or stoned almost every night is. Also consider whether your daughter's erratic behavior in one area of her life is interfering with other aspects of her life. Has her interest in attending dance clubs meant she has broken off contact with former friends and dropped out of activities she used to enjoy? Is your son's behavior preventing him from moving forward with his life? Is he skipping so many classes that he's in danger of failing a grade and dropping out of school altogether? The teen crisis quickly becomes the family crisis. As you deal with your teen's problems, the needs of your other children can get shoved aside, and everyday life clouds over with the constant dread that the teen's trouble may turn into tragedy.

 The days are gone when the consequences of misbehavior meant no more than a carefully worded note from the teacher or a request to pick up your child early from a birthday party. The problems that troubled teens can get into may threaten not only the teen’s health and well-being but also their life opportunities from now on. You may even live in fear for his or her life, worrying whether your teenager will survive the crisis. If you are parents of struggling teens dealing with fears like these, you shouldn't hesitate to get immediate professional help; many struggling families attempt to work through major crises on their own when they really need professional support. The first step may be as simple as talking with your family doctor who can help you assess the situation and counsel you directly or refer you to another professional.

 Then there's the pressing question that all parents of troubled teens face: How did this happen? Kids are a barometer of family tension. Almost all troubled teens are reacting to some kind of stress at home. Hard as it may be to acknowledge, troubled teen’s life at home may have played a role in the troubled boys or girls current distress. But the flip side is that her family relationships can also play a role in helping troubled teens get back on track. The task of adolescence is to establish a separate identity, which means establishing a few degrees of separation, even from the people who are most important to him. Although separating from one's parents is a necessary step in a healthy adolescence, it soon becomes complicated if family relationships have gone wrong somewhere along the way.

  Is there an alcoholic in the family creating a climate of constant uncertainty? Is your troubled teen the child you never really connected with? It could be that difficulties in your child's early life are unresolved. An early trauma, such as the divorce of his parents, that seemed to have been easily dealt with may have been buried only to surface again in adolescence. Sometimes when troubled teens act out, the behavior masks another problem in the family, but as long as the teen is the one on whom you all focus, the deeper family problem remains untouched and unresolved. Many parents of struggling teens aren’t aware the correct way to restore teens and need a professional to educate them. For parents of struggling boys and girls that need immediate assistance dealing with troubled teens, Zion Educational Services specializes in educating parents about different youth programs for troubled teens such as different types of private boarding schools for troubled teens, boot camps for troubled teens, schools for troubled teens, therapy programs for troubled teens and many other youth facilities for struggling boys and girls. ZES provides help for parents of troubled teens with the information to place your troubled boys and girls in the perfect treatment center that can meet their needs. If you have any questions or concerns contact ZES, (Zion Educational Services)  immediately to talk to a child education specialist at 866-439-8112.

 

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Behavioral Health

Types: NATSAP - IECA

Wilderness Therapy

RTC (Residential Treatment Centers)

Therapeutic Boarding School

Transition
Education Consultants/Mental Health

IOPS
Intensive Outpatient Programs
Mental Health Counselor/Therapists
Kid is being worked with “at home”, local therapy. They want their client back

Focus on: (referral based)
Mental Health personnel
Educational Consultants

IOP patients

Addiction Treatment

Types: NTAAP - NAADAC - Foundations

Intervention:

Primary Care: 28 days

Extended Care: 60-90 days

Long Term Care: up to 1 year
12 step programs
Celebrate Recovery

Sober Living/IOP:

Monitoring:

Focus on:
Interventionists
programs
Mental Health facilities

Mental Health

Types: APA

911/Emergency: immediate crisis

Stabilization: up to 28 days

Psych Stay: 1-2 months

Structured Living:

Transition

Focus on:
Therapists
Guidance Counselors
Public Professionals
IOPs